apologies anyone?

i read somewhere that sagittarians don't apologize. that they dont believe in saying sorry when the thing they did could happen again. (paraphrased)

i totally agree with this. i mean, i only apologize when ive done something really huge and it hurt somebody pretty bad and i dont mean to repeat it. i dont say sorry for minor things. like almost breaking something, i.e. glass, fave bottle or whatever. and i dont say sorry when the intention i had was good but the person got hurt, so to speak- like holding a hand a bit too strongly, accidentally embracing too tightly.

tho' i say sorry to strangers, like stepping on their foot accidentally. but to a loved one, i dont, i say: oops then smile. maybe i believe that, since the person is a loved one or a family member, i expect her/him to understand and not get offended. s/he's supposed to know when the pain was intentional or not. if it wasn't then no apology is necessary.

am i making sense? i really dont know how to justify how i behave. but i do the extremes. i say sorry when i dont mean it that much(to strangers) and i say sorry when i really mean it (for huge mistakes/wrongdoings) anything in between i consider it unnecessary to do so.

when somebody keeps repeating the word sorry when i already said it's ok, i get irritated. and instead of that thing (whatever s/he did) being totally irrelevant, it becomes an issue because i got irritated and the person is trying to make it into a huge deal so it becomes a huge deal. thats why i hate it when people keeps repeating the word.

it's just like saying i love you. when you keep saying the phrase, morning-noon-and-night, it slowly loses it's value. why cant we just say it once in a while so you'd treasure the moments you heard it? huh?